S – TF 3077, Eastern Cape
Availability status: | Available now in PE, travel costs |
Race: | Coloured |
Age: | 29 |
Hair colour: | Thick curly/ wavy dark brown (almost black) hair |
Eye colour: | Dark chocolate brown |
Has children: | No |
Proven donor | No |
Post matric studies: | Yes |
Other physical information: | As a child, I was taller than most girls and boys my age, which plateaued around the ages of 10 and 11, when I had my first period. I am currently 1.55/ 1.56 m. tall, which as far as I know, is below average height for females. It is worth noting that my mother consumed substantial amounts of caffeine (coffee and soft drinks) while she was pregnant, and continued to feed it to both my sister and me throughout our childhood, which could be attributed to our small frames. Growing up, I was average-sized in terms of weight (I weighed 30 kilograms when I was 8 years old), and continued to maintain a generally average weight throughout my life. Though my weight tends to fluctuate, I tend to remain between 52 and 55 kilograms. My other physical traits include mildly arched sparse eyebrows, almond-shaped eyes, a standard-sized, ball-shaped nose, and full lips. I also have two moles/beauty marks (one large and the other no bigger than a dot) on my left cheek, which have become one of my most distinguishing features. My limbs, despite being petite in height, are both equal in length. Though I am not the most physically active person, I stay active by going on a 20 minute walk daily and train in the gym by swimming for 30 to 45 minutes three times a week. |
Face shape: | Oval |
Other personal information: | South African nationality, B+ blood group, Christian. Candidate has been a student and will be resuming her studies again. She is an eloquent person who enjoys speaking. She performs well in oral presentations at school, and was involved in a few drama productions at school. She tends to be the life of the party as she enjoys being social, however, as she got older, grew to appreciate and enjoy time spent on her own as well. She enjoys reading, singing, dancing, writing (journaling, poetry, and short stories). Her interests include serving my community and helping improve people's lives in any way that she is able. She facilitates an informal outreach programme where they rally small groups of people to visit orphanages and children's homes in and around Cape Town, as well as winter drives where we get the people in our community to put together their old, gently-used clothing and blankets to donate to various homes and homeless shelters. Her passion for helping others has also been the reason that she has chosen to study towards degrees in the health sciences sector and, furthermore, why she decided to become an egg donor. Non-smoker. Reason for donating: To be able to help another family extend theirs would be a privilege and such a blessing. |
Reproduction history: | No children and no donations as yet. |
What are your views on religion and spirituality, and practiced religion? | I believe that religion has become something that has separated people more than it has brought us together. Spirituality does not have to be religion-specific. I place a substantial amount of importance on intentional and mindful and motivated by kindness and love. I currently practice non-denominational Christianity and it's important to me and my growth as a person. |
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Initial information
In which town and province do you live? | Eastern Cape |
Nationality | South African |
Where were you born? | King William's Town, Eastern Cape |
What language(s) do you speak? | I speak English and Afrikaans, and have a substantial understanding of isiXhosa. |
Year of birth | 1994 |
Age | 29 |
Star sign | Aries |
Blood group (if known) | B+ |
Why do you want to be an egg donor and if you had a message for your recipient what would it be? | I value family more than most things in my life, and believe that every child deserves to be born into a family of love and to be raised by parents who are ready for them, and willing to care for and unconditionally love and support them. I made the decision to become an organ donor because I enjoy helping people in any way that I am able. I try to donate blood as often as I am able, and I have signed on to be an organ donor as well. While I pride myself on having made those choices, it took me some time to decide to become an egg donor due to my limited understanding of the way in which I would be affected by this process. I was told that donating my eggs would result in my having fertility problems in the future and thus I would be withholding the gift of having children from myself. Once I educated myself on what egg donation is and what it entails and the minimal risk to me it would involve, I couldn't find any reason not to do it. Family, to me, is something that I cherish, my parents especially. So, to be able to assist with expanding the family of someone else is a gift I feel it would be selfish not to share. To my recipient: thank you for choosing me to help you make your dream of having a baby a reality. Your decision to expand your family with a baby is no small thing, and one which I do not take lightly. I wish you all the best on your journey towards becoming parents, and pray that the outcome of this process exceeds your heart's wildest desires. It is both my pleasure and a privilege to help complete your family. With all my love, Tiffany. |
How do you best describe yourself? | I would describe myself as a caring, compassionate, down-to-earth, easy going, kind, loving, and supportive person. I enjoy nurturing meaningful relationships and friendships, and take pleasure in socialising and trying new things. I enjoy staying busy by doing things that I enjoy, such as reading, writing, teaching, singing, dancing, and learning. While I like to organise things and have everything in my immediate environment neat and in its place, I enjoy creating cozy and relaxing spaces for me to unwind. I pride myself on having and following a self-care routine as it helps keep me grounded and calm, particularly in situations which I would otherwise find anxiety-inducing. I believe that the best thing that anybody can be, especially in a world which can all too often be so cruel and heartless, is one who is kind and who cares for others. |
Relationship status | Single |
Physical profile
Race | Coloured/ Mixed Race |
Skin complexion | Olive |
Face shape | oval |
Nose shape defined by Wikipedia | African - wide nostrilled nose |
Eye shape | Almond |
Height in metres | |
Weight in kilograms | |
What is your usual or ideal weight? | 52kg., but I am quite satisfied with my weight. |
Build and body shape | Endomorph, pear-shaped, and short. |
Which body part is most sensitive to weight gain or loss? | My lower tummy and thigh/bottom area is most sensitive to weight gain. |
Eye colour | Brown |
Natural hair colour | Brown |
Hair colour as a child | Black |
Hair type | Wavy |
Hair texture | Thick |
Description of hands and fingers | I have quite feminine-looking hands and fingers. According to consciousreminder.com, I have what's referred to as an earth hand. I have slightly stubby fingers, oval-shaped nails, my knuckles aren't well-defined, and the base of my thumb is thick and fleshy. The overall texture of my hand is soft and elastic. |
Any other defining traits such as breast cup, size shoe size, freckles, dimples, etc | I have two moles/beauty marks (one large and one smaller) on my left cheek. I have quite a few moles/beauty marks throughout my body, which tends to be a commonality among my father's side of the family. My shoe size is a UK 5. I have quite a wide smile, which has another of my more distinguishable features. I have freckles spread across the centre of my face, but that could be due to sun exposure as I was a swimmer throughout my school career and rather negligent about applying sunscreen to my face. |
Are you left handed or right handed? | Right handed |
With celebrity do you most resemble - physically? | Alicia Keys |
Siblings physical traits - hair and eye colour, height, weight and build | I have one younger sister, and she has an ectomorph, lean, and short build and body type. I'm not sure of her exact weight at this time, but she tends to weigh approximately 45 kilograms. She has naturally curly hair, dark brown almost black wide set round almond-shaped eyes. She has full lips and freckles. I'm not sure of her exact height, but we are similar in height, she's just slightly shorter, so I'd estimate she's 1.55 m. |
Reproductive information
Are you a virgin? | No |
Ever miscarried? | No |
No. and ages of children (if applicable) | No applicable |
Fertility issues | None of which I am aware |
Health of egg donor
Are you a twin? | No |
Are you adopted? | No |
Current health status lifestyle and/ or current diseases | Healthy and normal |
Smoker | never smoked |
Alcohol consumption per week. | None. |
Do you wear glasses? | Never |
How would you rate your sight? | 10/10. I had my eyes tested three times, and each time the optometrist called my eyesight "perfect." |
Any skin disorders, albinism, ectodermal dysplasia, eczema, acne, etc | I suffer from seborrheic dermatitis on my scalp, which I keep controlled with medicated shampoo. It is aggravated by stress. |
Have you suffered from/ currently have any health concerns/ diseases including but not limited to diabetes, cholesterol, blood pressure, thyroid, haemophilia, blood clotting, paralysis, porphyria? | I suffered from iron deficiency anemia in from 2017 to 2018 due to a heavy menstrual flow, but after being on birth control in October 2018 until March 2019, my doctor has said that my iron levels have returned to normal. |
Have you had any cancer? | No |
Have you had any heart problems? | No |
Please indicate if you have any allergies | None of which I am aware |
Any mental or psychological diseases/ learning disorders including but not limited to genetic depression, bi polar, psychiatric illness etc. Please elaborate and indicate if genetic. | I was diagnosed with ADHD in March 2019, and took a trial of Ritalin to try to manage this. I only need the medication during the academic year, so since I am no longer a student, I no longer need the medication. I have also been diagnosed with generalised anxiety disorder, and am on Serdep to manage this. |
Any physical handicaps or deformaties? If yes, please state. | No |
Do you have any genetic diseases or are a carrier of any genetic concerns including but not limited to thalassemia, cystic fibrosis and sickle cell? | No |
History of asthma | No |
Indicate any medication you are taking and reason for it. | Serdep (100mg) to control my anxiety. |
Have you ever been addicted to any substances? | No |
Have you partaken in any recreational drugs had tattoos or piercings in the last six months? Please explain. | No |
Details of any operations? | I had my wisdom teeth removed in 2017, but other than that, none. |
Are there any health issues of which you are aware that may be of concern for you to become an egg donor? If yes, please state. | My father is asthmatic. |
Any specific diet such as vegan, vegetarian, health conscious, low fat, etc. | No, my diet is not specialised. |
How often do you excercise? | A few times a week |
In which exercises or sports do you partake now? | I swim for 30 to 45 minutes three times a week. |
Have you excelled in any sports? | I swam in my school's first team from 2004 until 2012. |
What sports did you play at school? | I swam in high school during the summer, and I played hockey in the winter to stay fit. |
Professional and academic information
Occupation | Unemployed |
What is your ideal career/ occupation? | Sports massage therapist |
What are you doing to get to your desired profession in life? | I have applied to and been accepted to study massage therapy at the Potchefstroom Academy in 2020. |
Do you have a matric and university exemption? | Only Matric |
Subjects and grades or marks at school | English Home Language - 77%, Afrikaans First Additional Language - 86%, Mathematical Literacy - 80%, Business Studies - 55%, Consumer Studies - 67%, Biology - 63%, Life Orientation - 82% |
What is the name of any course / degree completed? | Part studies completed in Speach Therapy |
Planned studies | Diploma in Massage Therapy |
In what aspects do you have a keen interest? | I thoroughly enjoy learning about the human body and the mind. I also enjoy studying language. During the time I studied towards a degree in Speech Therapy, I completed 4 semesters of Psychology and 2 semesters of Linguistics, which I thoroughly enjoyed. I love learning languages and have found to be apt to learning language and grammar of English and other languages, namely Afrikaans, Xhosa, and South African Sign Language. |
What type of books do you like to read? | |
Would you prefer to read the book or watch the movie? | Read the Book |
Do you know if your IQ was ever tested and the score please? | My IQ was never tested. |
Behavioural traits
What is most important in life to you? | My family. |
If you had unlimited resources and could save one thing on earth what would it be? | My photo albums. |
What are your views on religion and spirituality, and practiced religion? | I believe that religion has become something that has separated people more than it has brought us together. Spirituality does not have to be religion-specific. I place a substantial amount of importance on intentional and mindful and motivated by kindness and love. I currently practice non-denominational Christianity and it's important to me and my growth as a person. |
Childhood religion? | I was raised in a Christian household. More specifically, Anglican Christian. |
Any specific achievements or aspects of recognition in your family | I achieved academic merit and honours awards throughout my school career - from grade 4 up to matric. I finished school with 4 distinctions. My mother only has a matric-level education, but has worked hard to start and manage her own transcription business as well as works at the University of Fort Hare in East London. My father completed school up until grade 9. My sister is a qualified fashion designer. My maternal grandfather is a carpenter by trade and has been a practicing theologian in the local Anglican Church for decades. |
Interests and hobbies | My hobbies include reading, writing, singing, dancing, spending time with friends and family, and trying new things. I am interested in the human body and mind, and enjoy learning about that. |
What is your preferred holiday? | |
If you were offered an all-inclusive holiday, what would it be? | |
Which interesting places have you visited? | I have traveled quite extensively between the Garden Route and King William's Town, and I enjoy stopping over to enjoy the many little town |
What are your feelings on animal welfare? | I am very passionate about animal welfare. I have been since I was little. I believe that all humans should advocate for the welfare of animals if for no other reason especially for the fact that they cannot speak for themselves. |
Strength and weaknesses | I am hard working, reliable, organised, trustworthy, a good listener, have an apt for learning languages, and am very ambitious. My weaknesses include being easily distracted, a tendency to overcommit to tasks that I find interesting, fidgety when I'm the centre of attention, and being sensitive to a change in my environment or daily routine. I tend to be forgetful as well, but I compensate by staying neat and organised. |
What do others generally think of you? | My friends have described me as nurturing, selfless, kind, caring, friendly, and reliable. I'm typically known as the "mom" of my friend group as I have been known to check up on my friends often as I value their well-being, and am often the one they turn to for advice or just as a listening ear when they're going through difficult times. |
Favourite flower | Lily of the valley. |
What is your favourite meal? | I really enjoy a tikka masala chicken curry. |
What is your favourite movie? | Avatar. I could watch it several times a day. |
What is your favourite book? | The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho |
Who is your favourite actor? | Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson |
Who is your favourite actress? | Jennifer Aniston |
What is your favourite colour? | Orange. |
What is your favourite colour lipstick? | I prefer a neutral lip colour, so I tend to wear either a soft brown or a mauve coloured lipstick. |
What is your favourite perfume? | No. 17 by Charlotte Rhys. I've been using it for years and I love it. |
Who is your favourite person? | My maternal grandfather |
Are you more introverted or extroverted? | Extroverted |
Would you prefer to go out with friends or stay in with a loved one or book? | Depends on the situation |
Are you musical or played any musical instruments? | I do not play any instruments, but I can sing. I was in our school's choir since I was 9 years old up to and including matric. |
Are you more cultural or more adventurous? | More Cultural |
Do you prefer indoors or outdoors? | Outdoors |
Which weather do you prefer? | |
Are you more creative or analytical? |
Family information of genetic parents
Nationality for mother and father | Both South African |
Country of origin and ancestry for mother and father | Both South Africa |
Language spoken for mother and father | Both Afrikaans |
Professions for mother and father | Mom - administrator, dad - retired builder |
Achievements on an academic level for mother and father | Mom - matric, dad - Grade 9 |
Race for mother and father | Both Coloured |
Natural hair colour for mother and father | Mom - dark brown, dad - black |
Eye colour for mother and father | Mom - dark brown almost black, dad - light brown |
Height for mother and father | Mom - 1.56m., dad - 1.58m. |
Mother and father build | Mom - endomorph apple-shape, dad - lean ectomorph |
Any specific defining traits for both parents | Both my parents have good eyesight, but both wear glasses for reading. |
Are your parents still alive? | Yes to Both |
If deceased, cause of death | Not applicable |
Age (if living, or age deceased) | Mom - 63, dad - 78 |
Health status | Mom - healthy, dad - asthmatic and currently being treated for prostate cancer |
Please indicate if any twins in your family and the relationship to you | My cousins are twins. Their father is my MGM's sister's son, so they are my second cousins. |
Please list any family members who have had cancer including aunts or uncles and on which family side | Dad - prostate cancer, maternal aunt (mother's second cousin) - breast cancer (in remission), maternal uncle (mother's brother) - prostate cancer (in remission). |
Any fertility problems in your family | My maternal aunt had ovarian cysts, which she had removed in 2011. She married her husband when she was 41, and never had any children of her own. Other than that, none. |
In your family, has anyone suffered from/ currently have any health concerns/ diseases including but not limited to diabetes, cholesterol, blood pressure, thyroid, haemophilia, blood clotting, paralysis, porphyria, heart problems? | Two of paternal uncles are type 2 diabetics. My matter aunt suffers from high cholesterol secondary to obesity. My MGF grandfather suffers from angina of the heart following a heart attack in 2018. |
In your family, does anyone have any genetic diseases or are a carrier of any genetic concerns including but not limited to thalassemia, cystic fibrosis, sickle cell, tay sachs? | None |
Any mental or psychological disease or learning disability or learning disorders including genetic depression, bi polar, psychiatric illness in siblings or family? If yes, please state | No physical or psychological diseases have been flagged as genetic in our family. |
Any physical deformaties or handicaps? If yes, please state | None |
History of asthma | Only my father |
Any skin disorders, albinism, ectodermal dyslasia or other in your family – please explain | None |
Any other comments regaring any health aspects in your family | Everyone in my immediate family is generally very healthy. The people in my extended family who have been flagged above as ill were all only diagnosed in their 40's and older, and in the case of my grandfather, 80's. |
Alcoholism / substance abuse | Only my father |
Grandmothers still alive? | No to Both |
If deceased, state cause of death | MGM - health complications following a stroke, PGM - natural causes (old age) |
Current age or age of death | MGM - 74, PGM - 97 |
Grandfathers still alive? | Only MGF |
If deceased, state cause of death | PGF - natural causes (he died in his sleep) |
Current age or age at time of death | MGF - 87, PGF - 76 |
Grandfathers' eye colour (maternal and paternal) | MGF - dark chocolate brown, PGF - light brown |
Grandmothers' eye colour (maternal and paternal) | MGM - hazel, PGF - light brown |
Grandfathers' hair colour (maternal and paternal) | Both black |
Grandmothers' hair colour (maternal and paternal) | MGM - dark brown, PGM - light brown |
Health of grandmothers (maternal and paternal) | Both good |
Health of grandfathers (maternal and paternal) | MGF - good, PGF - asthmatic |
Please specify if the race of your grandparents is different to yours. If mixed race, please specify race for maternal and patermal grandparents | All Coloured |
Any genetic health or psychological concerns worth noting regarding your grandparents | My grandfather currently suffers from mild dementia secondary to his age. Other than that, no. |
Any notes/ comments re family of family health aspects - genetic ito psychological, physical, deformaties, diseases, concerns | Two of my father's 10 siblings are type 2 diabetics. |
Egg donation stipulations
Please indicate if you have any donation conditions or criteria such as persons to whom you prefer not to donate | None |
Preferred town to donate | Port Elizabeth |
Towns available in which to donate - travel costs will be covered | Port Elizabeth |
Confirmation
I have only made myself available as an egg donor with baby2mom. | Yes |
Please advise any specific donation criteria other than those mentioned | While I indicated that I would prefer to donate in Cape Town, due to the fact that I am currently unemployed and my subsequent flexible schedule, I am prepared to travel to other cities and/or provinces should the need arise. |
All information provided is correct and pictures are all of me. I agree to keep baby2mom updated with the donor programe (screening, blood tests, scans, egg retrieval. I will keep baby2mom updated wrt my availability and wrt egg donation pregnancies achieved. I consent to participate in the baby2mom egg donor program and participate as required and understand the concept of anonymous egg donation and claim no further rights over any child(ren) conceived of egg donation. I agree that I will be prescribed medication to potentially synchronise my menstrual cycle with that of the recipients and will be given hormones in a controlled environment by professional fertility specialists to stimulate donor egg developement. I agree to find more information pertaining to egg donation on the baby2mom egg donor site or ask if I have any further questions about being an egg donor. I agree to participate as required as people often travel from international destinations to participate in a South African egg donation program and have incurred considerable financial and emotional costs | Yes |