A – KQ 4032, Port Elizabeth
Generate PDF| Availability status: | Available now in Port Elizabeth |
| Race: | Black |
| Age: | 23 |
| Hair colour: | Black |
| Eye colour: | Hazel brown |
| Has children: | Yes |
| Proven donor | Yes |
| Post matric studies: | No |
| Other physical information: | 1.59m., 59kg |
| Face shape: | Oval |
| Other personal information: | Christian, South African nationality, Xhosa ancestry. Candidate is a nursing student. Non-smoker. Reason for donating: I would like to become a donor because I would love to help people that are struggling to make their families complete, I can't imagine the pain they are going through and knowing that I could help, I would love to. I would like my recipient to know that she is an incredible woman who has made the extremely difficult choice to raise a child, to forfeit sleep, sanity and personal space for the development of another human. She is this child’s MOTHER. Biology is just biology. I will be forever humbled and grateful that I am able to help you become parent. |
| Reproduction history: | No children and proven egg donor resulting in a pregnancy. |
| What are your views on religion and spirituality, and practiced religion? | As long as people respect each other’s practises they are free to partake in anything they want to. And in my opinion religion and spirituality go hand in hand |
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Initial information
| In which town and province do you live? | Gqeberha(Port Elizabeth), Eastern Cape |
| Nationality | South African |
| Where were you born? | I was born in Livingstone Hospital in Gqeberha |
| What language(s) do you speak? | English, isiXhosa, isiZulu and Afrikaans |
| Year of birth | 2001 |
| Age | 23 |
| Star sign | Scorpio |
| Blood group (if known) | Unknown |
| Why do you want to be an egg donor and if you had a message for your recipient what would it be? | I would like to become a donor because I would love to help people that are struggling to make their families complete, I can't imagine the pain they are going through and knowing that I could help, I would love to. I would like my recipient to know that she is an incredible woman who has made the extremely difficult choice to raise a child, to forfeit their sleep, their sanity, and their personal space for the development of another human. She is this child’s MOTHER. Biology is just biology. I am forever humbled and grateful that I was able to help them become parent. |
| How do you best describe yourself? | What can I say about me? A twenty-year-old young adult who is passionate about everything musical, her life and adventures. At times I can be a little anxious, I over analyze everything, I think too deeply about most things. Maybe I can say I'm kind of a book worm. I would prefer books over movies any day (for movies that are based on books, always read the book first). I like reading Sci-Fi and self help books, being a 20 year old, at times I'm constantly confused about myself, my purpose in life and clueless about my intuitions. But I think it's normal in this age, we are in a stage of developing our personalities and who we are going to become, I should guide myself to become a better person, unlearn many self sabotaging habits we acquired from this society and people and declutter myself. Looking back at myself, my mentality has changed over time, the self sabotaging person who I was a year ago isn't the same as the person I am now. I think that’s how life works, if we keep trying we constantly change and improve our values over time. I’m usually shy and silent around people but once I feel comfortable around them, I am usually pretty cool. If our taste of interests vibes I may talk a lot and ask lots of questions, I’m curious about other people’s perspectives. I am enthusiastic about reading interesting topics on the internet, could be about ghosts, life, God, people, death, evolution and biology. Or I could be surfing the google earth and browsing the far across lands, viewing beautiful vacation places which I can't physically visit at this point in my life. Or could be watching true crime documentaries and mukbangs on YouTube. Recently I've kind of been interested in flexibility because when I was in primary school I played aerobics so I could do splits and I was flexible. Now, however? I wish I could do splits, so yeah recently I started doing meditation and yoga everyday. It makes me feel better. At this point I'm okay with my life. But I wonder if it will be cool to have a travellers lifestyle to do something enthusiastic everyday, to meet new individuals everyday, to do adventurous things, to be surrounded by people who are actually interested in hearing the things I want to say, to hike the mountains, to explore the cities, to walk a lonely road with my best friend, to go for excavation trips, to go to the beach as I wish and stay on the shore as the waves wash my feet, to have someone favorite so that I could tell about my day, my thoughts and so on. Like anyone else, I have bad days, drenched in all the haunting memories of every mistakes I ever did in my life, all the harsh times people made me go through. I think as a kid, I didn't live life quite well or observed life well, I didn't had a good mentor in my life or a good relationship with my parents, I think I parented myself, I taught myself how to survive, more specifically hard times evolved me over time, my self improvement peak age was 16 when I actually decided I wanted to be my true self and came out as a queer girl. Of course my parents helped me financially to reach where I'm now and also they sacrificed a lot to give me a good life, but they weren't the best parents, we had zero emotional connection, we never sat together for dinner or had a friendly fun talk etc, since I turned 13, before that I can't recall but as far as I can remember they didn't have a great co-parenting together life and they failed to build a good relationship with kids and teach their kids the important values in life. But, if it was without all these troubles the person who I'm now wouldn't have ever evolved. There’s no fictional super hero coming to save you, you have to get up and do it for you, I believe life is no miracle, if it was, life would have been way different from what we are living now, it's no coincidence either, we get what we make out of life. I fall in love with the magic of words, poetry, I write a lot, I like to write down my own words, like handwritten instead of penning down on a blog, I like travelling to new places, meeting new people, doing more adventures, I love beach dates, and staying on the shore as the waves wash my feet. Rain, cloudy rainy days are my favourite, early mornings too, I'm usually happier and optimistic in the early mornings. I really love singing and piano, I wish my parents had enrolled me in piano classes in my childhood, I’m desperate to play my favourite tones while singing along (I'm a very good singer by the way) because nothing brings me peace like singing does, well now I can't change the past or blame them. One of my favourite piano pieces is Bella's Lullaby by Carter Burwell, Dan Redfeld and Elizabeth Hedman. It is amazing. As a kid I used to love to be an archaeologist or Historian because that kind of thing interested me. But somehow tables turned around and now I dream about being a pediatrician, I am very passionate about babies and their health means absolutely everything. |
| Relationship status | Serious relationship |
Physical profile
| Race | Black/African |
| Skin complexion | Brown |
| Face shape | oval |
| Nose shape defined by Wikipedia | Greek - perfect straight nose |
| Eye shape | Almond |
| Height in metres | 1.59 |
| Weight in kilograms | 59 |
| What is your usual or ideal weight? | 57-55 kg |
| Build and body shape | hourglass |
| Which body part is most sensitive to weight gain or loss? | Thighs |
| Eye colour | Hazel |
| Natural hair colour | Black |
| Hair colour as a child | Black |
| Hair type | Afro |
| Hair texture | Thick |
| Description of hands and fingers | I have soft hands and short and thin dingers |
| Any other defining traits such as breast cup, size shoe size, freckles, dimples, etc | I have neither dimples nor freckles, size 4 shoe, size 7/ 8 shirt, A breast cup. |
| Are you left handed or right handed? | Right handed |
| With celebrity do you most resemble - physically? | |
| How many siblings do you have? |
Reproductive information
| Are you a virgin? | No |
| Ever miscarried? | No |
| No. of children | |
| Fertility issues | I have no fertility issues. |
Health of egg donor
| Are you a twin? | No |
| Are you adopted? | No |
| Current health status lifestyle and/ or current diseases | I am healthy |
| Smoker | Ex-smoker |
| Alcohol consumption per week. | I only drink when I am on holiday |
| Do you wear glasses? | Never |
| How would you rate your sight? | 18/20 |
| Any skin disorders, albinism, ectodermal dysplasia, eczema, acne, etc | No |
| Have you suffered from/ currently have any health concerns/ diseases including but not limited to diabetes, cholesterol, blood pressure, thyroid, haemophilia, blood clotting, paralysis, porphyria? | No |
| Have you had any cancer? | No |
| Have you had any heart problems? | No |
| Please indicate if you have any allergies | No |
| Any mental or psychological diseases/ learning disorders including but not limited to genetic depression, bi polar, psychiatric illness etc. Please elaborate and indicate if genetic. | No |
| Any physical handicaps or deformaties? If yes, please state. | No |
| Do you have any genetic diseases or are a carrier of any genetic concerns including but not limited to thalassemia, cystic fibrosis and sickle cell? | No |
| History of asthma | No |
| Indicate any medication you are taking and reason for it. | No |
| Have you ever been addicted to any substances? | No |
| Have you partaken in any recreational drugs had tattoos or piercings in the last six months? Please explain. | No |
| Details of any operations? | No |
| Are there any health issues of which you are aware that may be of concern for you to become an egg donor? If yes, please state. | No |
| Any specific diet such as vegan, vegetarian, health conscious, low fat, etc. | No |
| How often do you excercise? | A few times a week |
| In which exercises or sports do you partake now? | Yoga and lifting weights |
| Have you excelled in any sports? | No |
| What sports did you play at school? | Hockey and aerobics |
Professional and academic information
| Occupation | Unemployed |
| What is your ideal career/ occupation? | Paediatrician |
| What are you doing to get to your desired profession in life? | I am studying nursing right now and I hope to study further in the medial field |
| Do you have a matric and university exemption? | Only Matric |
| Subjects and grades or marks at school | Mathematics - 65%, English home language - 67%, Isixhosa - 79%, Geography - 49%, Life Sciences - 78%, Life Orientation - 69%, Computer Applications Technology - 56 % |
| What is the name of any course / degree completed? | None |
| Planned studies | Nursing |
| In what aspects do you have a keen interest? | I am interested in medicine both scientific and holistic. I am also interested in music |
| What type of books do you like to read? | |
| Would you prefer to read the book or watch the movie? | Read the Book |
| Do you know if your IQ was ever tested and the score please? | I was never tested |
Behavioural traits
| What is most important in life to you? | Family and love |
| If you had unlimited resources and could save one thing on earth what would it be? | I would save all the homeless children |
| What are your views on religion and spirituality, and practiced religion? | As long as people respect each other’s practises they are free to partake in anything they want to. And in my opinion religion and spirituality go hand in hand |
| Childhood religion? | Christianity |
| Any specific achievements or aspects of recognition in your family | No |
| Interests and hobbies | Singing, reading and cooking |
| What is your preferred holiday? | |
| If you were offered an all-inclusive holiday, what would it be? | |
| Which interesting places have you visited? | Durban and East London |
| What are your feelings on animal welfare? | Animal welfare is important because there are so many animals around the world suffering from being used for entertainment, food, medicine, fashion, scientific advancement and as exotic pets. Every animal deserves to have a good life. |
| Strength and weaknesses | Strengths - optimism, versatility and punctuality; weaknesses - sensitivity, procrastination and shyness. |
| What do others generally think of you? | I would like to think that others view me as a strong, kindhearted and compassionate individual |
| Favourite flower | Lotus flower bomb |
| What is your favourite meal? | Quesadillas |
| What is your favourite movie? | The twilight series |
| What is your favourite book? | The twilight book series and pride and prejudice |
| Who is your favourite actor? | Adam Sadler |
| Who is your favourite actress? | Kristen Stewart |
| What is your favourite colour? | Lilac |
| What is your favourite colour lipstick? | Nude |
| What is your favourite perfume? | Jasmine by Zara |
| Who is your favourite person? | My mother |
| Are you more introverted or extroverted? | Introverted |
| Would you prefer to go out with friends or stay in with a loved one or book? | -1 |
| Are you musical or played any musical instruments? | I am musical yes but i have never played any instruments. |
| Are you more cultural or more adventurous? | Bit of Both - depending on Situation |
| Do you prefer indoors or outdoors? | Indoors |
| Which weather do you prefer? | |
| Are you more creative or analytical? |
Family information of genetic parents
| Nationality for mother and father | Both South African |
| Country of origin and ancestry for mother and father | Both South Africa |
| Language spoken for mother and father | isiXhosa, Afrikaans and English |
| Professions for mother and father | Mom - nurse, dad - engineer |
| Achievements on an academic level for mother and father | Engineer and nurse |
| Race for mother and father | Both black |
| Natural hair colour for mother and father | Both black |
| Eye colour for mother and father | Both brown |
| Height for mother and father | Mom - 1.56m., dad - 1.82m. |
| Mother and father build | Mom - hourglass, dad - square |
| Any specific defining traits for both parents | None |
| Are your parents still alive? | Yes to Both |
| If deceased, cause of death | Not applicable |
| Age (if living, or age deceased) | Mom - 50, dad - 58 |
| Health status | Both healthy |
| Please indicate if any twins in your family and the relationship to you | None |
| Please list any family members who have had cancer including aunts or uncles and on which family side | None |
| Any fertility problems in your family | None |
| In your family, has anyone suffered from/ currently have any health concerns/ diseases including but not limited to diabetes, cholesterol, blood pressure, thyroid, haemophilia, blood clotting, paralysis, porphyria, heart problems? | None |
| In your family, does anyone have any genetic diseases or are a carrier of any genetic concerns including but not limited to thalassemia, cystic fibrosis, sickle cell, tay sachs? | None |
| Any mental or psychological disease or learning disability or learning disorders including genetic depression, bi polar, psychiatric illness in siblings or family? If yes, please state | None |
| Any physical deformaties or handicaps? If yes, please state | None |
| History of asthma | -1 |
| Any skin disorders, albinism, ectodermal dyslasia or other in your family – please explain | None |
| Any other comments regaring any health aspects in your family | None |
| Alcoholism / substance abuse | No To Both |
| Grandmothers still alive? | Only PGM |
| If deceased, state cause of death | MGM - passed away as a result of her high blood pressure |
| Current age or age of death | MGM - died at 89, PGM - 98 |
| Grandfathers still alive? | Yes to Both |
| If deceased, state cause of death | Not applicable |
| Current age or age at time of death | MGF - 101, PGF - 103 |
| Grandfathers' eye colour (maternal and paternal) | Both brown |
| Grandmothers' eye colour (maternal and paternal) | Both brown |
| Grandfathers' hair colour (maternal and paternal) | Both black |
| Grandmothers' hair colour (maternal and paternal) | Both black |
| Health of grandmothers (maternal and paternal) | MGM passed away and my PGM is healthy just old |
| Health of grandfathers (maternal and paternal) | Both healthy |
| Please specify if the race of your grandparents is different to yours. If mixed race, please specify race for maternal and patermal grandparents | All black |
| Any genetic health or psychological concerns worth noting regarding your grandparents | None |
| Any notes/ comments re family of family health aspects - genetic ito psychological, physical, deformaties, diseases, concerns | None |
Egg donation stipulations
| Please indicate if you have any donation conditions or criteria such as persons to whom you prefer not to donate | None |
| Preferred town to donate | Port Elizabeth |
| Towns available in which to donate - travel costs will be covered | Port Elizabeth |
Confirmation
| I have only made myself available as an egg donor with baby2mom. | Yes |
| Please advise any specific donation criteria other than those mentioned | none |
| All information provided is correct and pictures are all of me. I agree to keep baby2mom updated with the donor programe (screening, blood tests, scans, egg retrieval. I will keep baby2mom updated wrt my availability and wrt egg donation pregnancies achieved. I consent to participate in the baby2mom egg donor program and participate as required and understand the concept of anonymous egg donation and claim no further rights over any child(ren) conceived of egg donation. I agree that I will be prescribed medication to potentially synchronise my menstrual cycle with that of the recipients and will be given hormones in a controlled environment by professional fertility specialists to stimulate donor egg developement. I agree to find more information pertaining to egg donation on the baby2mom egg donor site or ask if I have any further questions about being an egg donor. I agree to participate as required as people often travel from international destinations to participate in a South African egg donation program and have incurred considerable financial and emotional costs | Yes |
